Helping VS Responsibility

Recently the term "HELPING" seem to have a whole different meaning to me! I have offered to help many people in terms of work wise, not like I brag about it. However, helpful does have a price to pay coz people start to change it to be a "RESPONSIBILITY" thing. Not sure which dictionary they are using but this isn't my kind of definition. It is at times like this that makes me think that Helping is not a good thing coz it only brings more trouble to you. So much for the kindness and that is why people like me tend to lose or HUMANITY and become Ruthless BEAST!